Love your areolas!
Ok, I'm 42 6ft 4in, 255 masc big shoulders etc when my cock is hard it's 5.5- almost 6 inches. When it's soft it's just a small little nub , about a inch or less. I have been married to a great wife for 5 years. She's 28 latina.
She has never seen my cock at its smallest, I will chub it up a bit when I walk in the room nude ready for sex.
Do u think I should keep my little nubby dick to myself and not let her see such a tiny thing on on such a big man or you think I should show her and let her play with amd touch?
I can send pics if u want,
Don't be too concerned. Most guys are very small when not aroused. I'm sure you are over all average size both when erect and when you aren't. Let the wife see and enjoy you in all stages. I assure you she isn't worried about your size. I know I love all cock no matter the size before or during erection.