Thank you for clarifying what a poly dolly is. Now I understand the question. I am guessing you actually are looking for an over the top attractive woman as a partner. Wouldn’t you prefer a true slut like myself? I mean a slut gives you what you are actually looking for SEX and lots of it in lots of fun ways including in public and super wild and kinky.
Most poly dolly types (as I now understand the term) are too caught up in themselves to be into the type and level of sex most guys want. I’m sure there may be a few but that means they just crossed over into being a SLUT and hence what you are actually looking for.
Woman of all looks shapes and sizes are out in the real world just as interested in finding a good partner. Be a gentleman and put yourself out there. Talk to ladies in the stores on the beaches by the pool or wherever you find a lady you would like to know. If she is interested I assure you she will let you know. Good luck.